Know the boundaries

Most of the time, our clients understand how this industry works and what is expected from both sides. They know that it is a professional arrangement based on mutual respect, discretion, and clear boundaries. However, there are always a few individuals who like to push those boundaries. They convince themselves that certain rules do not apply to them because they see themselves as “nice guys” or “exceptions”. In reality, this behaviour is not nice at all—it is disrespectful, manipulative, and puts our ladies in uncomfortable or even unsafe situations.

 

Our ladies hold a great deal of respect for you, our clients. They make an effort to present themselves well, be punctual, be polite, and ensure you have an enjoyable experience. In return, it is only fair that you show the same level of consideration towards them. Our ladies are not just a service; they are individuals with feelings, boundaries, and the right to feel safe and valued. Treating them with courtesy and honesty is the most basic expectation.

 

Why Our Rules Matter

We would like to take a moment to reiterate some important rules and explain clearly why we insist on them. These rules are not in place to control you or to invade your privacy. We are not interested in exposing your identity, contacting people you know, or causing you any embarrassment. Our sole intention is to verify that you are a genuine client so that our escorts do not waste their time or risk their safety.

 

Every booking involves preparation on the lady’s part: she arranges her schedule, prepares her appearance, and often travels to meet you. When a client is dishonest or attempts to change the terms at the last minute, it shows a lack of respect for her time and effort. The rules we have set help to avoid those situations and to create a smooth, respectful experience for everyone involved.

 

Do Not Bring an Unannounced Friend

One of the most common boundary violations we see is when a client books an Incall escort and then “forgets” to mention that he is bringing a friend, expecting that both men can see the same escort for the price of one.

This is completely unacceptable for several reasons:

1. Safety: It is unsafe for a single lady to receive more than one client at a time, especially if she has not been told in advance. Walking into a room and finding multiple men present is intimidating and can leave her feeling vulnerable.

2. Consent and comfort: Our companions agree to see one person per booking unless specific arrangements have been made. They have the right to know exactly who they are meeting and how many people will be present. Surprises of this nature are never welcome.

3. Fairness and professionalism: Expecting two people to be entertained for the price of one is simply unfair. Our ladies are professionals, not a “buy one, get one free” deal.

If you would like to bring a friend, we can consider it—please let us know in advance. In many cases, we can arrange for another lady to join you or structure the booking in a way that is safe and comfortable for everyone. Transparency matters. If you are honest with us, we can work together to create an enjoyable experience.

 

Do Not Haggle or Attempt to Change the Agreed Price

Another tactic that some clients use is to agree to a price over the phone, then try to renegotiate the fee once they arrive for the in-call. They might claim they did not understand the cost, or that they were expecting a discount, or that they only had a certain amount of cash with them. This kind of behaviour is not only awkward—it is disrespectful.

 

Our ladies do not appreciate haggling. Each sets or agrees to a specific rate for her time, and that rate reflects her experience, presentation, and the quality of service she provides. When you arrive and immediately start trying to knock off £50 or more, you are effectively telling her she is worth less than what was agreed.

 

This is deeply embarrassing and uncomfortable for our companions. They are human beings, not products on a sale rack. The price is discussed clearly in advance to avoid confusion. Once a rate has been agreed, we expect you to honour it without argument. If you are not comfortable with the fee, the correct time to discuss that is before you confirm the booking—not at the door.

 

Be Reachable and Honest With Your Contact Details

When you call, we do not appreciate “withheld” or hidden numbers. We understand that you may be concerned about your privacy, but we need a reliable way to contact you if any changes, delays, or clarifications are required.

 

Here is what you should know:

• We may need to verify your number or obtain your text address to send you booking details or updates.

• We do not store your number indefinitely or use it for marketing or unsolicited calls.

• We will not call you back if you have clearly stated that you do not wish to be contacted again.

 

Modern mobile phones are highly advanced: you can easily delete numbers, messages, and call histories, and block and unblock contacts as needed to protect your privacy. There is no need to hide behind a withheld number when dealing with us. A visible, reachable number is a basic part of building trust.

 

Hotel Bookings: Accuracy and Discretion

Hotel bookings follow the same principles of honesty and clarity. Before sending an escort to you, we routinely verify the room number and the name on the booking with the hotel. This step is essential for security and to ensure that our lady is going to the correct person and location.

 

For this reason, it is crucial that you provide your correct name and accurate room details. If the name or room number you give us does not match the information at the hotel, we cannot send a lady to you. This is not us being difficult; it is a necessary policy to prevent misunderstandings, time-wasting, or potentially unsafe situations.

 

Discretion is extremely important to us. Our ladies do not want the awkwardness of turning up and having to present a receipt or give a name that does not match, as that immediately draws attention and can “give the game away”. Our priority is to keep things as smooth and discreet as possible for you and for our ladies.

 

Safety and Behaviour in the Room

If one of our team members arrives and finds a situation that does not match what was agreed, she has the right to leave immediately.

 

Examples include:

• She enters and discovers there are multiple men present, despite being told there would only be one.

• The atmosphere in the room feels threatening, uncomfortable, or unsafe in any way.

• The client speaks to her in an aggressive, abusive, or degrading manner.

 

Our girls are instructed not to remain in environments where they feel unsafe or disrespected. Their well-being comes first. If anything about the situation deviates from what was arranged, or if the client’s behaviour is hostile or demoralising, they will refuse to enter the room or will leave.

 

Please remember: this is a professional service. Basic politeness goes a long way. Speaking calmly, treating the lady with courtesy, and respecting any boundaries she communicates will make the experience far more pleasant for both of you.

 

In Summary

To put it simply:

• Be honest about who will be present.

• Do not try to sneak in extra people or expect two-for-one arrangements.

• Respect the agreed price and do not haggle at the door.

• Provide a reachable, non-withheld contact number.

• Give correct information for hotel bookings and room details.

• Treat our ladies with respect, speak to them politely, and never make them feel unsafe or humiliated.

 

We hope that we have made ourselves clear. These rules are not unreasonable—they are about respect, safety, and professionalism. When you follow them, everyone benefits: you enjoy a smoother, more relaxed experience, and our ladies can do their work in a secure, dignified environment.

 

 

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